I am sending you to another blog today with permission from the author. I read this entry this weekend and was very impressed. I love gaining knowledge that helps me to think more objectively and logically rather than reacting emotionally. This is one of those posts.
The blog is Finding My True Identity and the post is Extinction Bursts.
I found this blog, and many others, on LDS Addiction Recovery Blogs. This is an awesome resource with blogs from loved ones as well as addicts.
Have a great day ladies!